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Ø   Worship Him alone. This includes asking only Him. Ø   Believe in the Unseen, establish prayer, and spend for the poor and  needy and in the way of Allah. Ø   Believe in the Revelations (the Holy Books). Ø     Believe and testify that Muhammad PBUH is the last Messenger of Allah  and The Quran is the Holy Book revealed to him. Ø   Believe in destiny and preordainment of good and bad.  (Everything happens by Allah’s will). Ø   Be good in every matter. Ø   Forgive and forget. Ø   Be patient. Ø   Suppress anger. Ø   Respect women and give them their rights. Ø   Give children love, respect and their rights. Especially the orphans. Ø   Respect men and give them their rights. Ø   Lower gaze and avoid all shameful things. Ø   Speak nicely with others. Ø   Be kind to the poor and needy. Help them. Ø   Be united. Ø...

In Arabic, words are formed from some basic root words which take various forms to mean differently in different contexts thus giving Arabic Language richness. That is the reason why the Arabic terms cannot be accurately translated into other languages to give the perfectly same meanings as the original. To understand this concept of root words we can take some example from English language. For example there is this word irreversible . You can see that it is not the basic word rather it has some prefix and suffix. The basic word that you can find here is actually reverse . When we put –ir before it and –ible after it, it becomes ir=reverse-ible, and we write it as irreversible. This way we can now understand Arabic words too. The word Islam اسلام  comes from the root word sa la ma. س-ل-م Islam is the technical name of the creed preached by the holy Prophet Muhammed pbuh. It has been the religion of all prophets in all climes, other (so called religions) being so ma...

Taken from www.farhathashmi.com 1 : Be grateful to your husband . Remind yourself that it’s a tough world out there and your husband works very hard to provide for you. So whatever you do, don’t compare him to other men, unless it is favorably. Let him know that you  appreciate his efforts , not just through your words, but also your actions. 2:  Be sensitive to his moods, feelings and needs . For example,  don’t start complaining  or burden him with problems as soon as he comes home; rather, welcome him and make him feel good to be home. 3 : Be cheerful and humorous, smile often,  don’t feel shy to be affectionate with your husband and make him feel really happy to be around you.  Express your love frequently and creatively, rather than waiting for him to do so first. 4: Make sure you serve him the foods he likes, remembering that variety is the spice of life. Try to eat together as this fosters companionship. 5:  Dress up for your hus...

I read this somewhere and wanted to share it with all... Let me tell you the ways to get to his heart  Delicious food is where you should start A really good meal – there’s nothing like it Be it steak or biryani, kebabs or fish When he returns home from work, greet him at the door A really nice smile will please him for sure Elegant clothes, make-up, perfume applied All these things make for an attractive wife. Serve him his meal and do it with style The domestic woes can wait for a while. Be a good listener – Was his day alright? Be ready to give him support and advice When he’s home, try to be there for him No friend can be more important than him If he wants to go out put everything aside Let your company be the best thing in life Be smiling and cheerful and do make him laugh This is one more way of keeping his heart Use wisdom and tact when dealing with him Nothing can be gained by fighting with him If he does say something which ...

Rely on no human. Expect from no human. Get attached to no human. Ask no human. Rely on Allah. Expect from Allah. Get attached to Allah. Ask from Allah. People often maintain good relations with their fellow beings thinking that they might be of some good to them. They might benefit them or help them in times of need. This is a very base and selfish thinking. We must never keep good relations based on such an attitude or thinking. This kind of relation has no depth, no value , no respect and no reliability. When we maintain any relation with others it must be based on Allah’s commandments. It must be for His sake and pleasure. This means when we keep a relation we must keep in mind the rules laid down by Allah for that relation. For example if we make friends with our neighbor we must be aware of the rights of a neighbor and friend in Islam.  We must also know how important it is to enjoin good and forbid evil.  Spending time with frie...

Now who’s there to complain, to feel pride, to boast to boss around, to hate and to do this and that? The ‘I’ of you has died. What was it for anyway? The ‘I’ has perished. It is now in the mud. Its worth is now final. Did the ‘I’ in you lived for itself, for others or for it’s creator? What did it think of ‘itself’? ‘I’, ‘me’, ‘myself’ was nothing in itself. ‘I’ was good if it was good to others not only to itself. ‘I’ was successful if it found others happy, ‘around itself’ not just for ‘itself’. Why are there others around you? Just for you to find faults in them! For you to criticize them! For you to do what you like! NO. Others are put there around you to ‘test’ the ‘I’ in you. ‘I’ was created to love the fellow creatures and not to hate them. To help them out and not to be difficult to them. To guide them to good and not to mislead them. To love them for Allah. To fulfill your duty toward them. To show that you ‘hav...

Students are told that they have only one course book which they have to read and understand. They are given a few questions which they will be asked on two consecutive exams. The date and time of the exam is not told. They will be asked to appear for the exam anytime. They should be prepared to answer those few questions that they were provided beforehand. They have been told to live in a certain hall where there is every facility. They can avail the facilities according to the rules of the examiner. They have to stay there for a period of time until the examiner calls them. In the meantime they have to keep in touch with the book, and they have to see if they know the answers to the questions provided. There is someone who is hidden and recording all the activities of the students which he will  show  to the examiner on the Final Exam day in the form of a record book. They have to appear in two exams. One is the Pre-final and the other the main exam or the Final Exam...